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At home we speak ",[279,296,297],{},"languages",".",[159,300,301,302,305,306,309],{},"A typical weekday feels like this: ",[279,303,304],{},"two or three sentences about everyday life",". We would love to learn about ",[279,307,308],{},"your language, food or traditions",". Please tell us what helps you feel comfortable in a new home.",[265,311,313],{"id":312},"_2-our-week-and-your-free-time","2. Our week and your free time",[159,315,316,317,298],{},"Point to the agreed schedule and explain who takes over. This section does not replace the ",[183,318,320],{"href":319},"\u002Fen\u002Fblog\u002Fmandatory-au-pair-weekly-schedule-ind\u002F","weekly schedule required by the IND",[273,322,323,333],{},[159,324,325,326,329,330,298],{},"Our current weekly schedule is here: ",[279,327,328],{},"link or location, version date",". It shows task times, breaks, days off and which adult takes over. 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Check the current journey and last connection home in the transport planner before travelling. If you get stuck, our agreed backup is ",[279,441,442],{},"who to contact and what to do",[265,444,446],{"id":445},"_6-practical-arrangements-and-expenses","6. Practical arrangements and expenses",[159,448,449],{},"Use your actual agreements. For every amount, explain what it covers and when it is paid.",[273,451,452,466],{},[159,453,454,455,458,459,462,463,298],{},"Pocket money: ",[279,456,457],{},"agreed amount, frequency and payment date",". Transport arrangements: ",[279,460,461],{},"what we provide or reimburse",". Language course arrangements: ",[279,464,465],{},"agreed support",[159,467,468,469,472,473,476,477,480,481,484],{},"For household purchases, use ",[279,470,471],{},"agreed payment method",". Discuss purchases above ",[279,474,475],{},"amount"," beforehand. Keep the receipt and send it through ",[279,478,479],{},"method",". 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